Friday, March 27, 2009

Losing your partner

Life is never plain sailing and whatever one's age, a couple can drift apart for some reason or another.

Unfortunately, I certainly cannot get back mine as he passed away earlier this month. But for others who like to know how to get back their partners who left them I found some interesting advice given in such circumstances in The Magic of Making Up.

If you are feeling overly anxious to get your ex back, you may be behaving in the wrong way, causing your ex to pull away naturally. It is human nature in general to resist this kind of pressure. Struggling against human nature is completely pointless, and it will only make matters worse.

Are you calling your ex too much, constantly writing him e-mails or text messaging him? Are you trying to make him feel sorry for you? If you are doing these things, stop! If you are asking yourself " What can I do to get my ex partner back", then you need to stop doing these things right now.

Watch here as the author gives some sensible advice in this video.

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